Love & Connection Assessment  ·  What Comes Next

You answered honestly.
Here's what that opened.

Three things — one of which starts this week.

Watch this first

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Three offers below
From Those I've Served

What shifts when people work with me

Real words from real transformations.

Offer One — Free

Two exercises.
Start today.

No opt-in. No purchase. Both are explained in the video above, and both are designed to move what's stuck.

01

The Writing Protocol

Based on Dr. James Pennebaker's research

Four days. Twenty minutes. A pen and paper.

Pennebaker's research — conducted over 30 years — shows that structured expressive writing reduces emotional suppression and shifts the way we process difficult experience. Within a week, most people notice something loosen that they didn't know was held tight.

It works because it bypasses the part of you that performs — even for yourself.

Free  ·  Explained in video above
02

The Mirror Exercise

Direct  ·  Embodied  ·  Activating by design

Most people perform even when they're alone. This practice removes the audience — and reveals the gap between who you are when no one is watching and who you become when someone is.

Using a mirror and a recording device, this exercise rebuilds the relationship between your private self and your expressed self. It's simple. Many people find it unexpectedly charged.

That discomfort is data. And it's where something new begins.

Free  ·  Explained in video above

Offer Two — Free

One room.
Ten people.
No performance.

This is not a webinar. There are no slides, no pitch, and no agenda designed to impress you. It's a live group coaching session — the kind where honesty is welcome and something actually moves in the room.

You'll experience what it feels like to be fully present with a small group of people doing the same work. That experience is the offer.

May 13
7:00 – 9:30 PM EST  ·  Live on Zoom
May 14
7:00 – 9:30 PM EST  ·  Live on Zoom
10 spots per session — first come, first placed

Reserve Your Spot

Three minutes. Helps Dexter show up prepared for you specifically.

Offer Three

For those ready
to go all the way in.

Unmuted is a 6-week live group coaching program for people who've spent years performing a version of themselves — in their work, in their relationships, in rooms where they should feel most at home — and are ready to stop.

Six weeks. Live on Zoom. A small cohort of people doing the same work you came here to do. Session by session, the gap between who you are privately and how you show up begins to close.

The love and connection you want isn't the destination. It's what's left when the performance finally stops.

Founding Cohort Price

For assessment participants only

$1,497 USD
$449
70% off
Promo code EMPOWER70

Enter EMPOWER70 at checkout to apply your 70% discount. This offer is exclusive to 7 Shifts assessment participants.

Enroll in Unmuted

What's included

6 live 2-hour group coaching sessions on Zoom
Tuesdays & Thursdays, 7:00–9:00 PM EST
6 to 10 participants — intentionally small
Direct live coaching from Dexter each session
Session recordings included

You took the assessment for a reason. I wish you the best in your self-empowerment journey.

"Important things you write down,

the most important you don't."

Locally serving the

Greater Toronto & Hamilton Area

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